Best Sex Tips – The Porn Babes’ Guide to Explosive Sexual Pleasure

The other day I watch an interesting video on spike.com. The website interviewed some of the hottest porn stars on earth. The babes gave some useful tips to men on how to have better sex. In this article, you will find out what they said and how you can apply the tips to spice up your sex life:

#1 Tiffany Price: “Let the women take control sometimes.”

Verdict: Unless your partner is a virgin, chances are she craves to be the one in control some times. Women with sexual experiences know their body, how, and what to do to get them climax. Instead of boring and predictable sexual patterns, let her be on top and do the job. You can lie down on your back, while she is doing her job. When she’s in control, you may find that she looks hotter and more attractive than before!

#2: Tetra Patrick: “Don’t be shy, go for what you want.”

Verdict: Nothing is more attractive to women than confidence and self esteem. Confidence is not being cocky, arrogant or conceited. A confident man believes in himself and knows what he wants. Ever wonder why women are always attracted to what we called the “bad boys”? It’s not because they are challenging or good looking. It’s because these guys are not afraid to be themselves.

#3: Jessica Drake: “After a romantic night out, watch couples of good adult videos together.”

Verdict: you may know that most women (including your partner) do not like porn movies. It’s only partially true. To be precise, women do not like porn movies with quick sex scene. On the contrary, women love porn movies with lots of stories appeal. These days, there are many excellent productions made by female directors. These movies are very popular among women. Go buy and rent these types of movies if you want to add more spice to your sex life.

Why Porn Addiction is Not the Reason That Men Frequently Masturbate

There are many things in life that are absolute certainties, other than the usual ‘death and taxes’. Every human infant will cry. Everyone will see their own blood. Everyone will experience physical pain. We will all know heartache and grief, joy and embarrassment. And men will masturbate. There are no if’s, buts, or maybe’s about that fact. While a growing percentage of women are being a little less coy about admitting their own self pleasure, men have been pretty open about it for years. We all do it. We all talk about it. It’s part of ‘male’ culture, for a huge variety of reasons. And it can be a problem for women to accept. It doesn’t really matter if a man is married, divorced, widowed, single, engaged, homosexual, or any combination of those. It doesn’t matter if he is newly married, in love for the first time, in a long standing relationship, or if his girlfriend is a glamorous model. He will masturbate. A lot of women will be appalled to hear that fact, but they should do their best to accept it. Take a look at your partner ladies. Just because you might never have seen him doing it, don’t think for one second that he doesn’t. He does. We all do. Why we hear you women ask.

Why would a man want to masturbate, jack off, beat, or whatever the latest slang name is, when he has got me available? The answer is simple. Fantasy. When it comes to sex, men are lazy. If we could lay back and do nothing, believe me, we would. Sex is great but it can be hard work. Every single woman is different. Some women can have an orgasm in ten seconds. Some in twenty minutes. Many need far more specific attention and the right type of contact to achieve their own level of satisfaction. So if a man can enter into a fantasy world, where his sexual partner is everything he can dream of, has no demands on him, and gives him exactly the same result as sex, then he will do so. Women will understand all about fantasy. This may also be the reason that women masturbate. The difference between the sexes seems to be that men can become aroused almost instantly, especially using visual stimuli and imagination, like a porn movie, while women often require far more subtle aural, sensual, and actual stimulation.

So ladies, imagine this. You come home from work late, your man has metamorphosised into Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington, the Milk Tray Man, or whoever your most recent favourite is. Not only that, he has also made your favourite dinner, washed the dishes, lit the right smelling candles, put them all in the right places, relaxing music soothes your ears in surround sound, he has ironed your blouse and skirt for tomorrow, has run your bath, and is standing ready to massage your aching limbs at the merest snap of your fingers. He then proceeds to seduce you with the right words, the right touch, the right actions, the right amount of kissing at the right times. His arms have the right amount of muscle, so does his six pack, his body feels right, he smells like you want him to, and when you make love, he does everything that you want, in just the right way, and without being told to. Mind blowing.

Pure fantasy. Now women have to accept that for men, it is very similar, except that men don’t need to ‘feel’ sexy. Porn is a quick stimulus for most men, but the fantasy itself is the biggest turn on. Many men find porn films as fake as the female stars breasts. The acting is at times quite pathetic, the scenarios are unreal, and the action is, for want of a better word, limp. Pornography just gives a man a helping hand to become aroused. Men imagine that his fantasy woman will do anything just for him. Things which maybe his real life partner would not consider. His real woman might not like oral sex, she might not make noise during the act, she might not like a certain position, she might only do it in the dark, and she may not have an orgasm through intercourse.

However, his fantasy woman craves oral sex, even licks her lips at the thought, she screams his name in ecstasy, and grunts with pleasure like the Williams sisters at Wimbledon, she is an expert in every position known to man, would willingly have sex in broad daylight in the middle of the nearest Olympic Stadium, and has a toe curling orgasm within seconds. Once again pure fantasy.

Because masturbation is a completely self controlled pastime, it shouldn’t and usually doesn’t have any bearing on a real relationship. It can even at times make sex more compelling. It should never be seen as a problem, unless a man seems to prefer to masturbate rather than have sexual intercourse with a real woman. But generally, women have to accept that when a man has hold of his own penis, he is opening the door to a completely false world, even though it is very erotic to him. The majority of men prefer the real thing, but still love to slip into that fantasy every so often.

Avoid Premature Ejaculation – Have Sex Like A Porn Star!

In porn movies, the porn actors always seem to last for hours. Well, you can last for hours too if you learn how to avoid premature ejaculation. It’s a lot easier than what you might think.

Not only will you finally be able to brag about how you last just as long as porn actors do, but more importantly, your woman will be well pleased. One of the most common complaints that women have about their men is that they don’t last long enough during love making.

However, most of them never mention it because they’re afraid that they might hurt their man’s feelings. Learning how to last longer in the bedroom is very simple and it doesn’t take long. In fact, you can see results as soon as tonight.

Ejaculating prematurely is almost never caused by any physical problems. This is a positive thing because that means that treating this problem will be a lot easier and most likely, it will be something that you can treat without anyone else finding out.

One of the best techniques that you can implement to become a better and longer lasting lover is the squeeze technique. It’s very easy to learn. Next time you’re having sex and you start to feel like you’re reaching the point of no return, just simply apply some pressure below the tip of your penis. This will cause the blood to go out from your penis and the feeling of the impending orgasm will go away.

Just squeeze using your thumb and forefinger and hold them there for 10 to 20 seconds and the feeling will go away.

There are other methods and strategies that you can use to last longer while having sex with your wife or girlfriend and many of them are just as easy to learn as the squeeze technique is.

Watching Porn Doesn’t Have To Be an Event for Just One

Let’s face it; men love their porn. It is the visual stimulation that turns them on and gets them in the mood. This doesn’t have to be an event that you do by yourself though. You can certainly include your partner so that you can spice up your sex life and perhaps take it to a new level. Porn movies do not have to be secretive, which if found by your partner can lead to arguments and mistrust. You should just bring it up to your partner to see if she may be interested in watching it with you. It will no longer be a “dirty secret” and you can both enjoy your fantasy life together.

When you first bring up the topic of watching porn together you should not just jump right into it. Make sure it is something that you can do together by buying a porn movie that is rather tame to start with. You do not want to start off with something hard core that will scare her off. Ask her what her fantasy might be and then try to find a movie that incorporates it, so that she is more interested in it.

You may also want to consider getting something special for that night. You may want to try a cream that turns women on more. This will not only turn her on, but will bring her to arousal quickly and with more intensity. There even is a product that will really enhance her sex drive. It is a daily supplement that makes a woman feel sexy and beautiful. With these products you are sure to have a better time together than ever before.

With adult entertainment such as porn movies, you can start to have a wonderful and adventurous sex life. Along with personal products that can really enhance your sex drive; you can explore a whole new way to make love that will bring the intimacy back into your relationship. You may become more daring and find that you really enjoy adding this particular aspect to your sex life. Many women love to watch porn but are afraid to try it for fear that their partner may look differently at them. Most likely this isn’t the case for men, but women may be afraid to bring up the topic themselves. If you bring it up, you may be pleasantly surprised at how eager she is to explore new parts of your relationship.

There are many other products that can help you feel good as well. There is one product in particular that will help you stay erect longer and give you a better orgasm and will also work to enhance the overall experience. Whether you want to try certain products or just experience the movie by itself, you will have a new outlook on your sex life, and your partner will be thrilled with how involved you are in making sure that together your sex life can reach completely new heights.

Marriage and Porn

Every once in a blue moon I have an amazing idea. And in most cases I also get to watch those ideas come to fruition and then somehow die an awful, horrible death.

Like most of the married men I know, I have a “sufficiently acceptable” level of sex in my relationship. “Sufficiently acceptable” because it’s not causing any arguments, we’re not getting a divorce over it, I’m just as much to blame for any or all excuses that get made as to why sex can’t happen, and most reasons given have a logical and understandable circumstance behind them. However, like most men feel, there could always be more.

So one day I had an amazing idea that I did not develop myself. It is something we have ALL heard about for years and years and years. It just so happens that this particular time thinking about it, made me suddenly assume that this idea was evidently made for me. Nothing has ever made more sense than this idea did, at this particular time.

“Spice up your sex life! Watch porn together!”

Why, that sounded perfect! I like porn! I generally keep that exclamation to myself but what could it hurt? My wife is a free spirit. A fun, independent, strong and secure woman. How could this not be the answer to all of our problems?

I went to the friendly neighborhood porno store and, because I am a lifelong geek, I saw a great title that captivated my attention immediately: BATMAN XXX, a porn DVD parodying the old 60′s TV show starring Adam West. What could be more perfect than this? Something not too serious. Something that she knows I have a dorky interest in, at least its source material. Batman would help give me the perfect alibi for coming up with this zany idea in the first place.

The first problem I experienced is that explaining to your wife that you think she should sit down with you and watch a bunch of people fuck so that possibly the two of you will also fuck is a lot harder to explain outside your head than you think. Several times I felt the incredible urge to squeal like a little girl and run out of the room. I think I got the initial ‘concept’ out before I locked up. And when the only thing happening, in a room filled with two people, is a confused “woman look?” Things don’t generally go well from there.

She asked to see the DVD. I obliged. She looked at the front cover, which is actually an amazing presentation consisting of Dale DaBone as Batman, James Deen as Robin and a really cute Lexi Belle as Batgirl. I saw her actually smile coyly when her eyes grazed past Randy Spears as the Joker and for a second I thought my work had paid off. But then she flipped the box around and the horror and surprised came screaming through as she laid eyes upon the dreaded “back of the box.” Which I probably could have warned her about.

Feeling awkward and deflated, but still undeterred, I suggested simply “come on… it’ll be fun.” She agreed, and the disk was inserted into the DVD player.

So the movie’s going great. The costumes are amazing. The performers are doing their best interpretations of the iconic characters, and even the old Batmobile makes an appearance! Then suddenly it’s time for the first sex scene. I know it. She knows it. It’s more than apparent. And the room gets filled with the weirdest, strangest tension ever. I have never felt anything like it in all of my married years. So suddenly before the very first hint of glistening flesh even comes into view I snapped up the remote and sent the visual back to the movie’s menu.

“You know…?” I stammered “I noticed that this also has a non-sex version!” She agreed in silence, and I made the selection.

Now I felt stupid. All of this. For what? Sure, it now wasn’t addressing anything I hoped to about our sex life, but in addition it made me feel like we didn’t have that connection that I had always felt we did, deep in my heart. And where was this going to lead? How would we ever bring this moment up without experiencing this awkwardness again, and again and again?

While all of this shot through my brain I finally fast forwarded the non-sex version of the movie to the spot where we left off. As it came up to the big moment it suddenly cut off abrasively and went to the next scene. My wife and I looked at each other as if to say “that was weird!” But when it happened again, my wife had had enough. She grabbed the remote, said “FUCK THIS” and returned it to the original XXX version.

I tried my very best to act normal, but really it didn’t matter. When it came up again to the big scene and the first bit of nudity was suddenly splashed across my living room, it wasn’t long before my wife and I were busy making our own movie. To be absolutely honest, I still have yet to see the rest of Batman XXX.

So my suggestion, to anyone who’s ever thought about putting this ‘great idea’ to use, is to go about it in the most positive way you can..but make sure and see it through. If you get as far as pressing play, you’re probably in a pretty good place. There’s a really good chance that your partner is just as freaked out about bringing it up as you are.

Using the Tips From an Adult Sex Guide Could Help Improve Your Love Life

Many books have been written for adults only. These books not only contain jokes, list out sex tips and discus different problems but also focus on games adults play. You can check out the details online and then download the right information which you can read at leisure. Several “Men’s only”sites are also available, where you can sign up as a member. Men openly discuss the most delicate topics and share views and opinions online. They send out regular newsletters, so that you receive an update on the latest in fashion, gadgets, products and more.

Some men are naturally good lovers. They are able to keep their women happy by doing what comes naturally. The important thing is that you should learn to relax. You should concentrate less on trying not to prematurely ejaculate and more on getting your lover in the right mood. A woman likes to take her time enjoying the sensations and foreplay that allows her to reach her peaks. Learn how to kiss and fondle her in such a way that she gets turned on. You can get detailed information from any adult sex guide online. Do not be hasty in choosing the first one that you see. Seeking information is one thing but putting it into practice will make the difference.

An adult sex guide will have more explicit information on the secret hot sex buttons you need to press, how much pressure you can apply and how to control yourself, from exploding prematurely. In the privacy of your bedroom, you can try out different variations and techniques. You can completely transform your den to make it look alluring, by lighting a few incensed candles, or you can both soak in that Jacuzzi swirling with beautiful red rose petals and lavender scented oils. The whole ambiance should be seductive with light music playing in the background. Do not overdo any of this because that could scare your lover away.

Make use of the hot sex tips that are contained in an Adult sex guide. Remember, kinky sex may interest your partner. Discuss your likes and dislikes and mutually try to benefit by deriving maximum pleasures from your efforts.

Read This Before Downloading Any Adult Sex Guide

The online world is actually inundated with adult sex guides. Just try searching for them on your favorite search engine and you are going to see such a lot of them waiting for you. They are all priced differently according to what they are supposed to contain and they contain different things as well. But, the point is, do you really need an adult sex guide?

The question you have to ask yourself is why you are looking for such a book to help you. Definitely the answer is that you are looking at improving your sexual performance. You are looking at giving your woman greater pleasure in bed. And you are hoping that the tantalizing sex guide you are looking forward to download will help you with it.

But, the fact is, no sex guide can help you if you don’t help yourself. These are some points you have to consider beforehand.

1. Good sex doesn’t come without a good equation with your partner. Yes, there are books that will train you in the pure art of carnal sex, but if you are in a long term committed relationship, then such a book won’t help you. Probably you will need a book that will tell you how to construct a better relationship with your partner than just some meaningless sex.

2. If you indulge in a great deal of foreplay, you can arouse your woman immensely. This is something that can really help you in what lies ahead. Maybe you won’t need the adult sex guide to spice up your act after that.

3. Another thing you have to consider is that you will need to actually implement the things that are mentioned in the guide if you want it to be effective for you. You cannot just read the book and then not implement it. Then it would be a futile exercise. In all probability the book is going to tell you about how you can have some more daring sexual experiences to make things more exciting-you have to be able to use that.

These are some of the things that you have to consider before downloading any adult sex guide. Will you be able to do it? That’s the question you have to answer.